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by Nina Ferrell
We have all been in a situation where something that felt good before, just does not feel that good any longer – be it a relationship, an event which we used to enjoy, a state of beingness, a physical location, etc.
We need to remember that as energetic beings in a time of rapid change and evolvement, as we move toward Oneness, our energy, our vibrational level is constantly changing and evolving too. One morning we wake up and things are different. We do a workshop and return to an unfamiliar house, unfamiliar people. Our outer reality has not yet caught up with our inner change.
In the reality system that we have created, things and people don’t go poof and disappear simply because we are no longer vibrational matches to them. They linger and change and don’t feel good any more and we start thinking that we did something wrong (which is our first choice whenever things seem to have gone wrong – “what did I do wrong?” )
Then we try to force them to work. We start reading books and go to counseling and go see a psychic and we turn ourselves into pretzels to figure out what we did wrong.
What if we did nothing wrong? What if we simply need to learn to let go? What if we simply need to know that things disappear when the lesson has been learnt and the teacher must be released?
We go “Oh no I promised her to be by her side forever, how am I ever going to forgive myself for this.” We say “This job gives me security, I can’t do without my salary.”
We suffer and pine and figure and try and make ourselves miserable. We, who are vibrating at a higher level than before, stoop down to drag the disappearing friend/lover/job/life/house/whatever back into our lives. And that is what feels so bad – lowering our vibration.
How about spreading your wings and allowing yourself to drop off that cliff into the pure sweet air of the high mountains? Would you believe me if I told you that you will be caught? That you cannot hurt yourself even if you are so scared it keeps you awake nights? Fly, follow those dreams, dare to be yourself – and know that you will always be moving away from things and events and people that you have outgrown, that it is very rare for any two people to remain a vibrational match unless they grow at the same speed and in the same direction.
You were never intended to remain glued together. You were intended to meet and love and teach and say goodbye and fly away, happy and eager for more. You were intended to be as free as the wind.
So think about that problem – does it still look the same?
Nina Ferrell
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