Auriol Hays
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Let’s just be straight with one another….we all love sex. Jack likes it in the early hours of the morning while any time of day is good for Jenny, but Saul…well, he is just down right weird…lol! Now let’s not lie to each other…I know you have porn on you pc (hidden in some obscure file) and heaps of toys…but no one would never willingly admit to any of it! We are all just a bit too busy being prim and proper, politically correct and conscious…lol! All the fun and jokes aside sex (in my mind) is an energy and I suppose it’s how you use it that really matters.
When I played the Take it Slow music video to my daughter‚Ķfor a few seconds a strange look crept up… About an hour later I asked her what she thought and her response was, ‚ÄúWell, I liked it Mummy but it sounded like you were having sex.‚Äù I swear I burst out laughing but then (a few minutes later)‚Ķ.I got concerned. Oh no.. just what was my dear child hearing that allowed her to make such a deduction! I suppose I don‚Äôt want anyone to think I am a saint‚Ķ. Hmmm maybe like everyone else I am somewhere in between. And just like everyone else I get it wrong a lot!
Man, some of my friends tell me all their sex business without me even asking and while I am eating too! Sure I am glad that they feel comfortable enough to share with me…but eish…sometimes I could do with less information. Like the girl who feels she needs to be beaten up before she can get her rocks off. Yes, sexuality can be very, very complicated…
People should be brave enough to ask more questions‚Ķ.try new things‚Ķand see just if they like it. In my mind there is no bigger sin than lying to yourself…
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